“I have experienced seismic shifts…”
â€śDear Claire,Â You are a genius – I went to do that concert last night almost unnaturally unafraid, I have never been so grounded and present before a ‘performance’ in my entire life…I simply was not nervous at all. I was excited and looking forward….this EFT thing is incredible!! Even my guitar teacher, who knows how neurotic I am, told me I looked ‘relaxed and happy’. No gallows terror for me last night. The strange thing was that the nerves came at the very end when I had been playing well (by my own standards) and the success triggered panic )) We did not tap for success!!!
At a more general level though, I also want to say thank you for holding all the deep stuff which emerges in this work. You hold a sensitive balance between levity (with that great cackling laugh!) that keeps things present, and compassionate acceptance that really helps me trust that whatever comes up and out, I am safe.
And I really have the feeling that this method really resonates for me, I wonder if it is because it is kinesthetic. I have done three years of talking therapy and all this stuff comes up and goes round and the grief bubbles out occasionally but I don’t think I have experienced the seismic shifts that appear to happen as a result of EFT sessions.
Anyway – I won’t write a novel. Thank you, thank you, thank you”.Â Â Â Â loveÂ PaulaÂ
“IÂ am so impressed with what you and EFT did for me…”
“Hi Claire – IÂ am so impressed with what you and EFT did for me.Â It is as if I have completely altered my Â outlook. Itâ€™s hard to explain but I feel like I am secure in who I am, and that this has come from deep within, and always been with me, and also feels like itâ€™s ALWAYS been there.
I have had what I can only call an epiphany, and it came from remembering the tapping, and reminding myself one day when things were bad and my body was not happy, that I was still okay and I did in fact still love me, right when I needed to hear that (a note to any sceptics out there, I used to try the looking in the mirror Â and saying I love you and feel like a, well, a you know what).Â Â The day after that, I literally thought â€śyou know what, I am done being down on myself. I can want things, I can strive to do things better, but I am no longer going to beat myself up about not being there yet as I can only be the best that I can be today, and that really is good enough, and it has to be good enough.Â Lifeâ€™s short and I am fed up of wasting it wondering what if and wanting what I am not. I have to love who I am right here and right nowâ€ť and I truly believe thatâ€™s come from the EFT you worked through with me as well. Thank you”Â Â X Janine
“IÂ … felt really energetically safe to work with you”
â€śI was thinking about you unprompted, really strongly on Friday. I always meant to send you a personal thanking for the EFT sessions that I participated in with you, for that is how I remember you, incredibly participatory, present, spirited and courageous. Your courage was loaded with compassion and I in turn felt really energetically safe to work with you.
Those sessions were incredibly professional and beneficial.â€ť In gratitude, Diane
“EFT is a very affirming practice…”
â€śI really like your openness and care. I feel very supported and that you wish me well and you’re really on my side.Â EFT is a very affirming practice and I like the level of self acceptance that you and the practice offer. I like the fact EFT gets to route issues very quickly and works; it has been instrumental in helping me change.
Oh and I love your human-ness!â€ťÂ JoÂ
â€śthankyou for the blissful momentsâ€¦â€ťÂ Julie
“I’m very grateful to you”.
â€śIt is always amazing how a different approach affects the awareness. Referring to my shoulder the connection to deeper things was very quickly very obvious and it was for the first time expressed aloud in that verbal clarity. The connectionÂ had beenÂ clear but being able to really express it and also experience the feeling with it was very liberating.
I myself saw the skeleton of my right upper body settling down in an airy way of harmony in a beautiful golden colour. There were no shadows in it, onlyÂ a profound silence and peace. The manifesting in the shoulder seemsÂ shifted, the bodymind gives the workÂ further which was very clear experienced and addressed.
I wanted you to know that the awarenessÂ for the energy of language and words have won an expanded meaning for me and I’m very grateful to you”.Â Â Â Tarja
â€świth you at the helm it can only be a successâ€ťÂ Janette
“I noÂ longer felt driven or overwhelmed by these emotions”.
â€śThe experience was good, at the time i felt we were looking at what was important & working on it and I came away feeling much clearer about where my own emotional reactions were coming from- so things that had felt overwhelming felt diminished in size and more manageable.
After the session I was able to go back to the (…place of trauma…)Â I did not realise until later thatÂ I had not experienced these physical symptoms which were related to feelings of anger and fear. I felt much more normal and able to behave in an ordinary way in that environment. I noÂ longer felt driven or overwhelmed by these emotions.
I felt listened to- that was very important and helped me to become clear about what was important. I did feel in safe hands and that you were very intuitive. for instance when you suggested that whatÂ I was describing might feel like being covered in a Â shroud; that was a very fitting image. And you were able to give your attention to what was going on well- it did not feel hurriedÂ and that was good.â€ťÂ Sarah
“…the EFT… has brought me much forgiveness in my life.â€ť
â€śI am doing fine and I am still very much in the process of integrating the last session we had into my life connecting with my inner feelings and my circulation movement awareness, which I sense is changing healthily to feel more warmth flowing to the ends of my fingers and feet. I am so grateful towards you for the work we did together in EFT last year which has brought me much forgiveness in my life.â€ťÂ Â Nicholas
“…aware on a deeper level than just talking, that we’re not alone!”
â€śJust wanted to thank you for last night. I found it very powerful. Dealing withÂ issues in a trusting supportive group like this makes you (well, made me)Â aware on a deeper level than just talking, that we’re not alone!Â Joy!Â Courage!Â Â Hug!Â Â Gentleness!Â Â …and something else…Trust I think
and love of courseÂ ” Jude x
“I… feel more equipped to face the challenges that are a part of my life!â€ť
â€śMy experience with our sessions have been very encouraging. I now have another tool to use when my thinking becomes negative and stifling.Â My issue of anxiety has been helped by our work together. I have better control of my anxious thoughts and feelings instead of them controlling me.
I really liked that I felt listened to not just heard. Claire is very in tuned to others feelings and is helpful in sorting them out.
Thanks again for your generous help! I definitely feel more equipped to face the challenges that are a part of my life!â€ťÂ Â Kathy
â€śyou are an inspiration to learn from…”
Itâ€™s obvious you actually care, I love the fact that you can cut to the core of the issue whilst helping us to realise it rather than just saying, â€śI think itâ€™s thisâ€ť and I really do think you are an inspiration to learn from and a shining example of how it should be done.Â Iâ€™ve worked with enough â€śspiritual and helpfulâ€ť people to know that actually, few are doing it for the right reasonsâ€ť .Â Â Janine